MANAGING YOUR DESIRES
Many modern sadhus (saints) , religious
leaders , teach : “All the problems in life are due to desires . If there are
no desires , there will be no misery . Therefore , remove all your desires and
you will be happy .” And some of them also advise , “Don’t expect results of
your actions .” But then , why should you do any action ? Not even a fool would
act without expecting any result . No one would perform any action without an
end in view , a desire , or an expectation . The desire is always for the
result , not for the action , per se . Teaching “Perform actions but don’t
expect results” creates a complex in people . Even Krishna did not perform any
action without expecting a result . When He played His flute , He expected at
least some sound , some notes , if not some audience mesmerized with His music
.
Lord Krishna says in Bhagavad Gita that
having desires is a blessing . “ One is endowed with the faith to engage in
worshipping ( seeking ) whatever objects he or she desires , and he or she
gains those desired objects because they are ordained by Me alone . ”
As a creator , Ishvara has nyaana-sakti (
power to know ) , iccha-sakti (power to will ) and kriya-sakti (power to act )
. Unlike animals , human beings are not totally programmed . Therefore , these
saktis are also reflected in the human beings and are active at all times.
Imagining , knowing or planning is nyaana-sakti by which I am able to know and
understand something . Similarly , iccha-sakti is the reason I am able to
desire . In every desire , Ishvara is manifest . Thus , removal of desires is
neither possible nor necessary . That I desire is not a problem . This desire
becomes a problem when you come under its spell . Therefore , Lord Krishna says , “ tayoh na vasam agacchet
tau hi asya paripanthinau ” , menaing , “ do not come under their spell , they
are inimical for you . ” If these desires become the masters , and you are
under their spell , then you are no more the free person that you were .
Fulfillment of desires implies another
manifestation of Ishvara , namely , kriya-sakti . It manifests in terms of
activity . Managing , not necessarily fulfilling , your desires is success .
Therefore , everybody can be successful . This is otherwise called antahkaranasuddhi – freedom
from one’s own likes and dislikes (raga-dvesha) . Raga is wanting to acqurire
and retain , dvesha is wanting to avoid and get rid of . If they are managing
me , I am a failure . I cannot fulfill all of them . If I am under their spell
, then I am in my own estimation , I would be a failure . And there is nothing more tragic than to
have a low Self-opinion .
PRAYER IS KARMA-YOGA
To convert a desire into a luxury , Lord
Krishna gives a clean plan under the title of karma-yoga . Karma-yoga is not
something secular . Without bringing Ishvara into the picture , there is no
karma-yoga at all . So , when I pray , I invoke the grace of Ishvara . The
graceful acceptance of what I get is possible when I have that
Ishvara-awareness in day-to-day life . It is not a philosophy , it allows you to
address your failures and enjoy successes ; it is your bread-and-butter . It
makes you a real person , one who has the vision , the wisdom of things that
are to be known . You know exactly what is to be done .
To act or not to act is my prerogative . I have
a choice over my action , “karmanyeva adhikaraste” . But once you act , the
result of your action is not in your hand . Who creates this result
(karma-phala) ?The order that is universal law . You are the cause for action
(karmahetu) , the law is the giver of the result (karma-phalahetu) . This is
not a man-made law ; this is the law , that is Ishvara . Every result of my
action that comes to me is from Ishvara . This is a cognitive change . There is
nothing material here . Nor is there anything to practice . If there is
anything to practice at all , it is to bring yourself to accept all results
equally , coming as they do , from Ishvara .
That is why after puja , whatever comes
from the altar is called prasada . Prasada can be even ashes (vibhuti) , kunkuma
, a leaf or it can be your own child . Your own body , your senses , your mind
are all prasada to you . The whole jagat is prasada . Is there anything here
that does not come from the Lord ? In that attitude , there is “namah” , there
is non-resistance , graceful acceptance . This is called “samatvam” ; this is
karma-yoga .
Thus , in everything I do , I recognize
Ishvara . I invoke His help , the seventh factor ( after effort , initiative ,
courage , intelligence , resourcefulness and perseverance are present ) by
praying , “ O Lord , help me manage my likes and dislikes . Give me the wisdom
to recognize and the strength to do what is appropriate .” And with the help of
Ishvara , I can manage the situation . Only then , can I achieve the ultimate
success , born out of Self-knowledge . Between Ishvara and you , there is an
identity , like that between the ocean and the wave . The reality of both the
ocean and the wave is water . The truth of Ishvara and you is sat-cit-ananda
atma . You can discover this through the study of Vedanta .
~ Pujya Swami Dayananda Saraswati
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